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No dar un palo al agua

To be lazy and not lift a finger

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Example

Ese tío no da un palo al agua: todo lo hacemos los demás.

When to use it

You have a roommate who never cleans, never cooks, and never helps, and you're venting about it.

What it means

Literally, it means "not to give a stick to the water," referring to not even moving a pole/oar in water-doing zero effort.
In practice, it means being extremely lazy, not working at all, or avoiding any responsibility. It's a classic Spanish idiom, used across many regions and generations. It's common in complaints about roommates, coworkers, or someone living off others.

Don't confuse it with

"No dar un palo al agua" does not mean to hustle from dawn to dusk, to make you pay for it, to be hard to believe. It specifically means "To be lazy and not lift a finger".

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