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Un tocapelotas

A nuisance

ES
Example

El vecino es un tocapelotas: se queja por cualquier cosa.

When to use it

A neighbor keeps knocking to complain about tiny noises like a chair scraping, and you vent about them to your partner.

What it means

Literally, it means "a ball-toucher," with "pelotas" being slang for testicles in Spain.
In practice, it means a nuisance: someone who pesters, nitpicks, annoys, or keeps bothering you. It's vulgar-ish but extremely common in Spain, often used at work or among friends when someone is being unbearable. There are softer variants like "tocanarices" (nose-toucher) that mean the same but with less crudeness.

Don't confuse it with

"Un tocapelotas" does not mean a know-it-all, a backstabber, a womanizer. It specifically means "A nuisance".

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