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Hacer la cobra

To dodge a kiss / to pull away and reject someone leaning in for a kiss

ES
Example

Le fue a dar un beso y ella le hizo la cobra delante de todo el mundo.

When to use it

At a party, someone tries to kiss a friend for a selfie and everyone sees them pull their head back instantly.

What it means

Literally "to do the cobra," like a snake pulling back to avoid danger.
In practice it means dramatically dodging a kiss when someone leans in, making it obvious you're rejecting it. People often use it to describe awkward party moments or public fails caught on video. It became especially popular in Spain as a meme because it's such a visual, easy-to-act-out move.

Don't confuse it with

"Hacer la cobra" does not mean to embrace someone tightly, to do a lap dance, to ghost someone online. It specifically means "To dodge a kiss / to pull away and reject someone leaning in for a kiss".

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