Mettre les pieds dans le plat
To make a gaffe / blunder
Oups… j'ai mis les pieds dans le plat en parlant de son ex.
At dinner you ask a couple when they'll have kids, not knowing they've been struggling.
Literally "to put your feet in the dish."
In practice it means making a social blunder-saying the wrong thing, often something awkward or too direct. It's the kind of gaffe that makes everyone go silent because you touched a sensitive topic. It can be accidental ("oops") or sometimes someone is clumsy and does it repeatedly. Close cousin: "mettre les pieds dans le plat" is often used when someone asks a question they really shouldn't.
"Mettre les pieds dans le plat" does not mean to arrive without warning, to take something the wrong way, to refuse to answer a question. It specifically means "To make a gaffe / blunder".
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