Prendre quelqu'un la main dans le sac
To catch someone red-handed
Je l'ai pris la main dans le sac : il piquait de l'argent dans la caisse.
You walk into the kitchen and see your little brother stealing cookies from the hidden cookie tin.
Very clear image: you catch someone with their hand still in the bag (implicitly 'the bag they're stealing from'), so in the act. It's the idiomatic equivalent of 'caught red-handed,' very common in crime stories, at work, or in family settings. You can also say 'prendre sur le fait,' which is slightly more neutral.
"Prendre quelqu'un la main dans le sac" does not mean to lend someone a hand, to give someone a second chance, to put someone on the spot. It specifically means "To catch someone red-handed".
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