Se prendre un râteau
To get rejected
— Alors, tu lui as demandé si on se voyait ce week-end ?
— Ouais… je me suis pris un râteau monumental.
— Aïe. Il/elle a dit quoi ?
— "T'es sympa, mais non." Fin de film.
You're telling a friend that you tried your luck with someone, but it ended quickly.
'Se prendre un râteau' means getting a clear rejection, often after a flirting attempt or a proposition. The image is like stepping on a rake and getting hit in the face. Informal register, very common in spoken French.
"Se prendre un râteau" does not mean to fall physically on a rake, to get promoted at work, to buy a rat. It specifically means "To get rejected".
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